Showing posts with label maternity. Show all posts
Showing posts with label maternity. Show all posts

Tuesday, May 13, 2014

She Has Arrived

Farrah Madison Smith arrived at 12:33pm on Friday, May 9th, 2014. She weighed 8 lbs 5 oz and is 21" long.



The labor and delivery went very well and only took 5 hrs from start to finish. She is eating and sleeping well and we just absolutely adore her.


Jake is one proud daddy and he is so wrapped around her tiny little fingers.


Big brothers, Tanner and Breckin, were so excited to finally meet her.



I am so in love and so happy I finally have a daughter.


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Monday, May 5, 2014

Monday Musings: Still Waiting...

Hey y'all - I'm 38 weeks and 4 days pregnant today...still waiting for baby girl to enter the world. I've had so many moments where I thought "this is the day", but so far, I've been proven otherwise. Most people might wonder why I think she'll be here so soon, but my first was a due date baby and my 2nd was 6 days early...so I sort of engrained it in my mind from the get-go that this one would be even a tad earlier than that. There's still a chance for that of course. I'm trying so many "labor inducing" methods, so far to no avail. I can only pray they are at least helping me progress.

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I've been trying to keep myself busy...cleaning the house, walking around the neighborhood with Breckin, getting certain errands out of the way {knowing I won't want to hit up the store so soon after delivery for anything}, but even so, I feel like these last days are just dragging. I am so glad this is my last pregnancy...love babies, but don't love the process! Three is enough, and a good number for us.

Oh, I should say Happy Cinco de Mayo for all you lucky bitches that get to enjoy margaritas today...I'm going to try not to think so much about that lime deliciousness...but it's very hard.

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Have a great week!



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Monday, April 28, 2014

Now It's Just a Waiting Game...

Today is officially my first day as a stay-at-home-mom {I didn't count the weekend, as I was always home on weekends anyway}! I turned 37 weeks pregnant on Thursday and my last day at work was Friday. Just look at this big ol' belly!


And those thighs...yikes. This momma has her work cut out for her this summer.

So now it's just a waiting game. I sit here today at 37 weeks and 4 days...just wondering how soon this little girl will make her grand entrance into this world. Breckin is home with me and we've got plans for a lot of morning walks to hopefully help things progress. It's also felt smoldering hot lately (I'm already running the AC!} which is not helping...I am SOOOOOO D-O-N-E done. Seriously...stick a fork in me.

While I'm waiting...I plan on using this time to get things around the house cleaned and organized {summoning what little energy I have these days}.

I've noticed some pregnancy blues lately...I think now that summer is pretty much here in Charleston, I'm starting to feel self-conscious about having a post-baby body all through it. I know my kiddos are going to want to hit up the pool and the beach...and here I am wondering what the heck I will wear! Those of you that know me well, know that I probably put a little too much emphasis on my body and fitness...but it's just been a big part of my life...and it's something I can't simply "turn off". I'd love to be one of those people that could care less how I look walking on the beach, or be comfortable with the post-prego flab for a few months...but it's just not something I've ever been able to do. I'm going to feel like I have to cover it up until I can reveal a post-pregnancy body I'm proud of. I remember literally being angry with myself about 1-2 months postpartum with Breckin....because my thighs were still pretty large and I had large "love handles"...it didn't just fall off like it did with Tanner when I was 22. And this is my first time being so newly postpartum in the summertime...Tanner was a November baby so I had all winter to get back in shape and with Breckin, it was already August, so I just didn't wear a bikini after I had him, until the following summer. I'm very apprehensive about what's to come, knowing this time it will likely be even a little harder. I plan to start working out right away, but I know it's no overnight miracle. Accepting that is the hard part. I want to be able to wear shorts and cute shirts this summer...rock a bikini...but it probably just isn't in the cards. I'm going to try not to let it get me down...because it is what it is...but I know I will have a hard time with it internally.

Anyone else ever feel this way? I'm sure I'm not alone in my feelings...it really is a lot to take...you know once the baby comes out, the extra weight is no longer "cute". But I'm just going to do my best to work hard at my fitness goals post-baby, truly enjoy my children this summer...and try not to think about it too much and get myself down about it.

Sorry for the vent...I try not to do that too much on the blog...but sometimes, it just helps to type it out.

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Friday, March 28, 2014

Not Moving After All

I know my posts have been far and few between the last few weeks. As you might know, we put our house up for sale a month ago and as of today, decided to officially remove it from the market.

We spent a good few weeks getting things cleaned and organized, as well as moving out clutter to a storage unit. Unfortunately, despite how nice our home interior looks compared to others in our neighborhood, it just didn't look like we were going to get the {fair} price we wanted and needed. Knowing that the area is up and coming - a new K-8, high school as well as nature trails are planned in the next couple years - we thought it best to just sit on it a few more years and then it will be worth our while to sell, and we can probably get something even better than we could right now. Luckily, we aren't in a position where moving is necessary, though I was excited at the prospect of a larger home. However, I feel a weight has been lifted off my shoulders for a little while...and I can focus on what's really important - preparing for the arrival of this baby girl in a few weeks.  {Plus, now I get to actually finish the nursery and put things on the walls!}

Anyhow, I do plan to get back on a regular posting schedule - this once or twice a week stuff just ain't cuttin' it, right? I can't believe we are pretty much in the home stretch with this pregnancy. Just shy of 7 weeks to go now...and my hunch is that it will be a bit less, maybe 5-6 weeks, based on my history. Here I am yesterday, at 33 weeks on the dot:




I can tell you I am soooooo ready...as if you haven't heard that already. I think I was ready around 7 weeks. What can I say? I miss wine...and normal exercise routines. No but seriously, we've got all the big stuff taken care of and it's all just waiting for a baby to inhabit it.

Now that we've taken the house off the market, as well as had some realtors give us some feedback on our place, I've got a little "to-doozy" list I've worked up for things Jake and I need to do, now that we plan on staying. Many of which I will end up sharing on here once complete. Here's the list so far, in no particular order {as I like to hold myself accountable by sharing this kind of stuff with you}:


  1. Repair Garage Door {Right now it doesn't work electronically and hasn't since we've owned the house. We've just lived with it by locking it manually and raising/shutting manually as needed.
  2. Build Fence Next to White Picket Fence {neighbor's} for privacy and sake of not having to view their yard {it's a rental home, so sometimes an eyesore}. The rest of our yard we have already fenced.
  3. Paint Stairwell and Upstairs Hallway to match the living room {my hubby was lazy about this when we painted the living room, but this portion is long overdue for a paint job and will create a cohesive look, while also making it brighter up there.
  4. Redo Master Closet. We really could stand to add some shelves or racks on the other side that is just a blank wall. I think it will make better use of the space.
  5. Upgrade Laundry Closet - Nicer shelving, maybe cabinets, a fun, bright paint color, etc.
  6. Backyard Landscaping - We need to do a little something out there.
  7. Build a Small Storage Shed - I'd really like to store our lawn mower and other gardening tools in something like that rather than the garage and maybe some of the larger kids' toys, so our yard doesn't always look in disarray.
  8. Put Lattice Around the A/C Unit. This will keep the dog and the kids away from it, and help prevent unnecessary damage. I'd die if my dog started chewing important cords and coils.
  9. Replace Toilet Seats. I know, yuck, right? I keep a clean toilet, but the actual seat {not the whole unit itself} in each of our bathrooms just seems dingy. It's a quick fix and something I just need to do already. {I'll spare you of me sharing this one on the blog. You're welcome.}
  10. Get My DIY Projects Going - specifically painting the wooden high chair, painting the bar cart, etc. This will obviously be after I have the baby.
  11. Finish Nursery - Mostly just need to add some art to the walls and set up some toy storage.
  12. Reorganize Office Closet - so it can function both as office/craft storage and a coat closet.

Happy Friday - Enjoy Your Weekend!



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Thursday, March 6, 2014

Pregnancy Questionnaire


How did you find out you were pregnant?  I always have a sense of just knowing, so I always find out extremely early since I start testing as soon as the test says it will work. With each child, I got my positive within 2 weeks from ovulation.
What kind of Pregnancy test did you take?  First Response I believe, or the generic version of that. I also had a couple dollar store ones {those are actually pretty good tests!}
How many?  In total, including my doc's test...I believe 6.
What were your 1st symptoms?  I think it was probably "the girls" being over-sensitive.
Who did you tell first?  My husband
Who was with you when you found out?  Jake, sort of. I took the test in the bathroom. He didn't know I was taking it. 
My 1st reaction:  I think I was a little apprehensive...I'm a thinker, so of course the thought of a 3rd child and what that meant for our finances popped into my mind. I was happy too, but it was overall a large mix of different emotions.
Was your baby planned?  No, we were still in that "up in the air" stage as to whether we wanted any more kids. I was also scared to have a third boy, so wasn't sure I wanted to try for a girl. 
When was the baby conceived?  Aug 22. One single oops in our pregnancy prevention method.
How far were you when you found out?  Gestationally, I was a day shy of 4 weeks, but I found out September 4th for certain at the doc's office, so that was 12 days from the deed that did it.
How did your parents react?  They weren't all happy-crazy {it is our 3rd after all}, just said their "congrats" and asked if we'd been trying.
How did you announce to "the world"? After we told the immediate family, we announced on Facebook and my blog with this photo:

My baby
Due Date:  5.15.14
Do you know the sex?  Wasn't trying, and I got my GIRL.
Any names?  Yes, we have a name picked out. Keeping it under wraps until she's born.
Any Ultrasounds? One at 9 weeks, a gender scan {that I paid for} at 16 weeks and our anatomy scan at 19 weeks.
Have you heard the heart beat?  I hear it at every appt. She's consistently been in the high 130s/low 140s.
Who do you think it will look like? I'm actually at a loss for this one. I think she will look similar to my boys in a sibling way, but I'm really hoping she gets the dark black/brown hair that my parents and younger brother have, my blue eyes and Jake's tan skin tone.
Will the baby have siblings?  Tanner, 8 and Breckin, 3. Also our Boston Bulldog, Sugar.
Have you felt the baby move?  She moves a lot...I feel she is awake more than she sleeps.
Miscellaneous
Did you have morning sickness?  Not really. I would get slight nausea and dizziness that was cured by me just getting something on my stomach. I've been that way with all of my pregnancies.
Did you have any cravings?  Mexican food, mac-n-cheese, Skittles - all things that are bad.
Did you have any mood swings?  I do feel I'm more emotional in this pregnancy...easily frustrated and angered.
Are you a high risk pregnancy?  No.
Any complications?  Not at this time....and hopefully never!
Formula or Breastfeeding?  I'm going to try breastfeeding again. I made it 4 weeks with Tanner and 7-8 weeks with Breckin. I really want to make it a lot longer this time.
Have you bought anything for the baby yet?  She has just about everything she needs, with the exception of a swing and a few minor things. I have my baby shower next weekend, so we'll see after that.
When did you start to show?  Way too early. Probably as early as 8-10 weeks I was getting a little pudgy. The 3rd just gets right out there and down to business.
{12 Weeks, 1 Day}

How long could you wear your regular clothes?  For a while, but eventually I chose maternity purely for comfort's sake - at least the jeans.
Will you keep the baby’s clothes?  No, this is our last baby.
Home or Hospital?  Hospital. 
Natural or Medicated birth?  I held out until 9.5cm with Breckin before they were finally able to get me my epidural. It was very painful and intense, but I know I can make it that far. I'd like to see it all the way through without the epidural, but I also like the more relaxed feeling I get when I have the epidural...so we'll see.
Who will be in the delivery room with you?  Jake, Doc and nurses.
Do you think you will need a C-section?  No. I've had two easily successful vaginal births, so I have no reason not to expect the same with this one. 
Will you cry when you hold the baby for the 1st time? I honestly don't think I ever have...I'm not heartless, but my emotions swing the other way...just happy, and a little tired/overwhelmed. I've never been much of a crier in general.
What’s the 1st thing you might say to the baby?  I haven't ever really thought about that.
Will you let anyone video tape the birth?  No.
Are you excited?  Nervous-Excited. Our lives are going to be going through a lot of changes once she arrives.
Who will help you with the baby after the birth?  I really don't know. My mom doesn't live near us. I think once Jake goes back to work after a couple days, I will be on my own!
What is your favorite thing about being pregnant?  To be honest, I really don't like being pregnant. This is my 3rd, so I'm really not enjoying it and I'm eagerly awaiting for the end. Feeling the baby move is the only cool thing about it to me. Everything else just plain sucks.
What is the worst thing about being pregnant? For me, it's gaining weight and having to start all over again on my body afterward.
What’s one thing you miss doing since being pregnant?  Drinking socially and stylish outfits. I try with maternity clothes, but it's really just not flattering no matter what I do.
Any days you wish you were not pregnant?  In the sense that I could have my body back, yes, everyday. In the sense that I really want this little girl I'm cookin', no.
Are you ready for a baby?  This is as ready as I'm going to get...I sort of know by now what's to come. The only thing right now is that we just listed our house for sale, so there's a little chance we may be moving when I'm due, or shortly after I have her, so that's going to be a little crazy and stressful, but we will survive.
Do you have insurance?  Yes.
How many kids do you want?  This is #3 and this is it.
Do you talk to the baby?  Not really...I mostly just rub her when she moves around...and I know she hears my car concerts.
Do you still feel attractive?  No, I'm two months from my due date and I'm huge.
{29 Weeks}

Have you had your baby shower yet?  No, it is March 15th.
Do you like kids?  I love my kids {and sometimes don't really like them at the same time, lol}, but in general, I do like other people's kids, however, now that I have my own, I'm not as apt to want to hold other people's kids or deal with them, if that makes sense. I'm already tired and busy with my own! But I think kids are great, I've had many jobs that centered around working with them, even special needs ones. 
How far along are you now?  30 weeks today...almost eviction time.


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Thursday, January 9, 2014

Acceptance

I'm at a point in my pregnancy where I look at myself and can't fathom how I could possibly get any bigger. Yet, I know that it's going to happen...it's just not possible to expect not to grow over these final 18 weeks. But I'm also at a point where I've decided to just make peace with it and accept it. I have to have faith in myself that I will have enough discipline to reclaim my former size, or hopefully even better than that. I have to stop being hard on myself and shaming what I see in the mirror. I've done it before, twice now...I'll do it again. That's what I need to tell myself from now on. I need to learn acceptance of this body as it is now...making and carrying my daughter...who will be more precious to me than making any goal weight on the scale.




I remember what I looked like a few weeks before I had my first son...here is me at 34 weeks {Warning: Blast from the Past below!}:



And I grew even larger that next 6 weeks. It was hard to imagine getting back down to size after that...but somehow, with hard work and dedication, at 6 months postpartum, this is what I looked like:




With all my hard work, I actually weighed a good bit LESS than I did pre-prego.

Now, with pregnancy #2, I got big again...this is me at 4 days before Breckin was born:




I know, DAMN, right? Haha. I will admit that I remember feeling like I had to work a bit harder to see results after having Breckin - and maybe that was because I was caring for two kids instead of one - but somehow I made it back down again. Here is me shortly before getting pregnant a 3rd time:




I wouldn't say I was the best I could be, but hey, I know I got that far, I can do it again. For me, it's all about making the time for fitness, which I make sure I do. That's half the battle. I find that eventually, the rest falls into place.

I need to accept my body for the amazing things it's accomplished - the biggest of those accomplishments being bringing these beautiful babies into the world. I need to stop being so hard on myself and fat-shaming myself while pregnant. So for now, I'm going to let go of the worry about "getting my body back" and put faith into myself. I am going to enjoy the time I have making this beautiful daughter of mine and feeling her kicks. The last thing I ever want to do is teach her to be hard on herself physically...I want her to know body acceptance and the importance of taking care of yourself...I don't want her to see me be harsh and judgmental of my own "flaws" and instill that memory in her mind. She should always know she's good enough...and I need to know that I'm good enough.

So though it may be a while after I have her, I hope to come here and provide an "after" that proves that I had nothing to worry about and that I just needed to be accepting of the changes my body was going through at the time.




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Friday, January 3, 2014

Friday Five

It's been a while since I've done one of these posts. I blame traveling and the holidays. Forgive me? Mmmmmkayy...





{one}
Ordered some fitness DVDs - one being Focus T25 by none other than Insanity's Shaun T. I want to be ready to blast these post-prego lbs ASAP and I plan on starting this the month after I have the baby. We already have Insanity, so I will be doing that after T25. My husband will actually be going at it first, so I may see if there is anything my prego self can jump in and join him on.


Additionally, I bought a Living Social deal for some barre DVDs. Since leaving my gym membership recently, I've really missed the classes and the workout is great for pregnancy, so this is the program I ordered. I can't wait for it to arrive so I can get started. The holidays had me a bit lazy in the exercise category. I can't kick off the new year by losing weight {that will have to wait until May}, but I can certainly head in the right direction for post-pregnancy.

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{two}
We are clearing out and painting the nursery this weekend. And by "we", I mean my husband. I, of course, need to keep away from the paint fumes and someone needs to watch the boys. But it's just one room, so Hubby can manage. I will move what I can...there's not too much to do in that area. I am going with a light gray, hopefully the same, or very close to what we painted the living room and kitchen. I've lost that paint card, so I don't know exactly. I hope to find it because we still need to do the stairwell to match {eeks!} After this room is painted, I will finally be able to get in there and do what I do best - decorate and organize!

{three}
I hit 21 weeks yesterday and I am starting to feel this baby girl "tickle" me here and there. It's an amazing feeling - I forgot how wonderful it was. I also drive myself crazy getting nervous on days I don't feel her as much. But apparently I've got an anterior placenta this time around, so that's why I can't feel her a ton yet. It will get better over the next few weeks. Here's a nice picture of me currently...getting riper and riper by the day. You may see why I feel the need to start more barre workouts and a little T25...hehehe.



{four}
I got some good baby stuff this past week...ordered a double jogger, a new travel system and our crib also arrived {waiting for the painted nursery before setting that up!} It's getting girly 'round here...

Gisele by Baby Trend

{five}
I'm rejoining my gym tomorrow. I left it in November and planned on rejoining shortly after the baby arrived, but I have been unable to keep up with working out without it unfortunately, and well, the holidays really screwed up my waistline more than the pregnancy was already going to...so it's time to get back on a regular schedule or I fear I will have to lose 50+ lbs after this pregnancy and for me, that's just unfathomable. I will also be in a better place mentally to get back on schedule with my fitness blog, The Gym Bunny. I have sort of left that in the dust this pregnancy and I want to get back to a regular posting schedule.

So this 5 on Friday was a whole lotta pregnancy and exercise stuff, wasn't it? I guess I'm just feeling the need to really be good in this last half of my pregnancy. Motivation is key!




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Monday, December 23, 2013

My Gender Reveal Party

I hope y'all had a wonderful weekend. We had a great weekend announcing our baby's gender to "the world" at our gender reveal party! Here are some pictures of what I put together for it:








Hands down, my favorite part of the setup was the candy buffet. It was so fun to put together. I lucked out and found the cookies and cupcakes at Target of all places - pink and blue at Christimastime? The rest was ordered from Party City online, or found at my local party planning store and the dollar store.




I also set up a hot chocolate station and used the Crockpot to keep it warm. This was actually a bust because, believe it or not, it was 80 degrees in Charleston on Sunday. Not that I'm complaining!






I held a little raffle too for a Target giftcard. It was fun for everyone to make their guesses.






I gave them some clues by writing my results of some popular wives' tales on a black piece of poster board with a paint pen.






The water bottles I just wrapped with pink and blue duct tape I found at Target.



We snapped a quick family pic with the reveal box.

And now, for the big reveal, for those of you not on my personal Facebook or Instagram...

Drumroll, please...






IT'S A GIRL!!!

I am sooooo very excited as it's no big secret to anyone that knows me how badly I've wanted a girl...I am so anxious to meet her this May and get her started in dance classes ASAP! :-)


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Thursday, December 19, 2013

It's The Big Day

Today I find out if I'm having a girl, or if I'm running for the hills {OK, totally kidding on that last part}.



Our ultrasound is today at 2pm EST...I'm nervous and excited...been feeling the girl vibes this entire pregnancy {minus any morning sickness...I think my body just is OK with pregnancy?} Here's a pic of me from this morning at 19 weeks along:




I won't be announcing on here until after we have our Gender Reveal Party on Sunday. I am so excited for this party...I'm putting together a candy buffet and a hot chocolate station {though the weather says 75 for that day, so I might nix the latter.} I've found tons of inspiration on Pinterest of course.


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I'll post pictures of my party next week of course!

Most of all, I'm just praying for a healthy, perfect little baby. So I really hope that today's ultrasound has good news all around. Wish me luck!



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